“The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals that Protect us from Violence” is a must-read for recognizing and acting on our intuition that something is out of place. DeBecker runs a security firm that advises and protects clients. Here, he offers his insights to the reader.
What is the potential for danger? You probably already know if you haven't suppressed the clues. DeBecker examines what conditions can be tracked before violence and danger happen. He offers both cautions, signals, and reassurance about domestic violence, abuse, assassination, stalking, and other realities.
He ends optimistically - most of your concerns won't materialize; knowing what's real helps the mind to rest and stay alert. He notes that everyday hazards are not solved by worry (the conscious choice to gnaw at possible future harm,) though worry may comfort the worrier while it annoys the heck out of everyone around him or her.
Please read it if you are responsible for an office, religious setting, or team. It will help you understand the signs of potential harm so you can put deterrents in place. Highly recommended.
